2 syllables: Au, Pair. Stress on Pair.
oh-PE-ur
/oʊ ˈpɛɚ/
Au Pair is pronounced oh-PE-ur (/oʊ ˈpɛɚ/). It has two syllables (Au-Pair), with the stress on "Pair". Au pair is a temporary international-care arrangement in which a person (often a young adult) lives with a host family to provide basic childcare and light domestic help in exchange for room, board, and a stipend. The term originates from French, meaning “on par” or equal, and the role emphasizes cultural exchange, not employment or long-term domestic work. Expect clear expectations, a formal visa if abroad, and mutual responsibilities negotiated with the family.
nounAu pair is a temporary international-care arrangement in which a person (often a young adult) lives with a host family to provide basic childcare and light domestic help in exchange for room, board, and a stipend. The term originates from French, meaning “on par” or equal, and the role emphasizes cultural exchange, not employment or long-term domestic work. Expect clear expectations, a formal visa if abroad, and mutual responsibilities negotiated with the family.
- You might naturalize the first syllable too much, turning /ɔː/ into a shorter vowel like /ɒ/; keep the long, rounded sound by opening your mouth wider and lowering your jaw slightly. - The second syllable can collapse into /pɪə/ or /peɪər/; practice the /peər/ pattern with a steady mid-to-high tongue position and a clear /eə/ vowel. - In fast speech, you may merge au and pair into a single syllable; practice with a 1-2 second pause between words until you can smoothly connect them without losing the contrast. - Don’t overemphasize the /r/ in non-rhotic dialects; in rhotic contexts, keep the /r/ distinct but avoid an intrusive linking /r/ in UK/AU-like speech.
"I found an au pair through an agency to help with my two toddlers."
"We became comfortable with our au pair after the first few weeks of settling in."
"The host family and the au pair signed a detailed contract outlining duties and hours."
Pronounce as two syllables: /ɔː/ for the first word and /ˈpeər/ (US)/ /ˈpeə/ (UK/AU) for the second. Put primary stress on the second word: au pair → au (unstressed) + pair (stressed). Start with a broad mid-back rounded vowel in the first syllable, then a clear, rhotic or non-rhotic /pɛər/ quality depending on accent. Listen for the long vowel in the second syllable and a smooth, even tone between syllables.
Common errors: 1) Flattening the /ɔː/ to a short /ɒ/ or /ɑː/; maintain the long, rounded /ɔː/ vowel. 2) Mixing the second syllable into a quick /ɔɪ/ or /aɪ/ quality; aim for /peər/ with a clear /eə/ or /ɛə/ depending on accent. 3) Applying American /r/ in non-rhotic accents; British and Australian speakers typically do not pronounce an intrusive /r/ after /ə/ unless connected to a following vowel. Correct by isolating each syllable and practicing the vowel length and final /r/ or no /r/ accordingly.
In US English, stress is on pair: /ɔː ˈpeər/ with the /r/ pronounced in rhotic contexts. In UK English, /ɔː ˈpeə/ with non-rhoticity often yields a longer mid-back /ɔː/ and a shorter /ə/ in the second syllable; final /r/ is silent. In Australian English, /ɔː ˈpeə/ with non-rhotic tendencies and vowel quality that may sound closer to /ɔː/ with a slightly flatter second syllable; linked speech can produce a smoother transition between vowels.
Key challenges are the diphthong in the second syllable and rhoticity differences. The first syllable relies on a full, rounded /ɔː/ that many learners simplify, and the second syllable /ˈpeər/ involves a precise /eə/ or /ə/ glide that varies by accent. Additionally, distinguishing the two words in fast speech and avoiding a clipped /ˈaʊ/ or merging with nearby words requires focused mouth positions and tempo; practice with minimal pairs helps solidify the two distinct vowel qualities.
The unique challenge is maintaining the hiatus between the two words while keeping a natural pace. The /ɔː/ in the first word should stay open and rounded, not shortened to /ɔ/ or /ɒ/. In connected speech, you may hear a light linking or slight assimilation into /ˈpeə/ depending on accent; focus on the clean boundary and the primary stress on the second syllable to avoid shifting emphasis.
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- US: /ɔː ˈpeər/ with rhotic /r/ in post-vocalic position; keep the second syllable clear with a pure /eər/. - UK: /ɔː ˈpeə/ often non-rhotic; the second syllable has a schwa-like ending; avoid adding an /r/. - AU: /ɔː ˈpeə/ similar to UK, but vowels can be slightly flatter and more centralized; maintain non-rhotic tendency and smooth liaison when followed by a consonant.
The term au pair entered English in the mid-20th century as a loanword from the French phrase au pair, literally meaning “at par” or “equal to.” In French, au comes from late Latin ad, meaning “to” or “toward,” and pair derives from pair, derived from the French pair, meaning “equal” or “on a level.” The concept developed in postwar Europe as cultural exchange and affordable childcare for families with limited resources. The English usage crystallized around the idea of a young person who lives with a host family and provides childcare in exchange for room and board, rather than a formal employee relationship. By the 1960s and 1970s, au pair programs proliferated internationally, particularly in Western Europe and North America, aligning with social trends toward mobility, study abroad, and cross-cultural exchange. Today, the term is associated with government-regulated visa programs in many countries, codifying norms for hours, duties, language immersion, and minimum stipulations to protect both the host family and the au pair. Historical discourse emphasizes reciprocity and cultural learning rather than traditional domestic labor contracts, though practical duties may still include light housekeeping and meal preparation as part of the arrangement.
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