TEN-dur
/ˈtɛndɚ/
tender is pronounced TEN-dur (/ˈtɛndɚ/). Tender is an adjective describing something soft or delicate, or a person who shows gentleness. It also functions as a verb meaning to offer or present something formally, or to care for someone briefly (as in medical tender or to tender a bid). In cooking, it describes meat prepared to be easily chewed. The word carries nuanced senses of care, softness, and formality depending on context.
Tender is an adjective describing something soft or delicate, or a person who shows gentleness. It also functions as a verb meaning to offer or present something formally, or to care for someone briefly (as in medical tender or to tender a bid). In cooking, it describes meat prepared to be easily chewed. The word carries nuanced senses of care, softness, and formality depending on context.
- Commonly, learners overemphasize the second syllable, turning /ˈtɛn.dɚ/ into /ˈtɛn.dɚɚ/ or /ˈtɛn.dɜː/. - Another pitfall is under-articulating the /d/ or making it a soft, almost silent consonant, which blurs the boundary between syllables. - Some speakers transfer their first-language vowel length rules, holding the vowel, which creates a long vowel in the second syllable; remember that the second syllable is reduced. How to correct: practice clear stop between syllables, keep second syllable short with a relaxed, near-schwa nucleus, and use light contact for /d/ to prevent fusion. Practice with minimal pairs such as tender vs tanneder (accent-specific) to hear the contrast. Keep your jaw relaxed, lips resting, and let the air flow naturally,
"The kitten looked so tender and small in her arms."
"He gave a tender apology, hoping to mend the rift."
"The restaurant served a tender fillet that melted in your mouth."
US/UK/AU all use two syllables with primary stress on the first: /ˈtɛn.dɚ/ (US, UK: ˈten.də; AU: ˈten.də). The second syllable ends with a rhotic schwa in rhotic accents (˚ɚ) or a syllabic, reduced vowel (ə) in non-rhotic variants. Keep the tongue high front for /t/ and /tɛn/ followed by a relaxed, mid-central vowel in /dɚ/. Ensure the /n/ is clearly nasalized before the /d/. Practice with ‘tender meat’ and ‘tender care’ for consistent syllable timing.
Two frequent errors: 1) Skipping or softening the /d/ into a flap or eliding the middle consonant, which makes it sound like ‘ten-er’. 2) Misplacing the second vowel as a pure /ɪ/ or /ɪə/ instead of a reduced schwa or rhotacized vowel depending on accent. Correction: articulate a clear /d/ consonant between the two syllables, keep the second syllable short and reduced (tə̞n.dɚ or ten.də), and avoid turning it into ‘ten-der’ with a heavy second syllable.
In US and UK rhotic varieties, the final /r/ is pronounced as a rhotic vowel (US: /ɚ, US dorsal rhotic quality); in many UK dialects, the final /r/ may be non-rhotic and reduced to /ə/ (tæn.də). Australian English typically rhymes closer to UK with a light rhoticity or non-rhotic tendencies depending on speaker; the second syllable’s vowel is a reduced schwa. Overall, the main difference lies in rhoticity and how the final syllable is vowelized.
The challenge comes from the combination of a stressed first syllable /ˈtɛn/ followed by a reduced second syllable that often involves a rhotic or non-rhotic vowel. The transition from a stressed to a weakly pronounced second syllable requires precise timing and a relaxed jaw to avoid over-articulating the /ɚ/ or /ə/. Mastery of the light, quick /d/ onset in the second syllable is also essential to avoid sounding like ‘ten-der’ with an extra emphasis.
A unique aspect is keeping the second syllable short and centrally reduced. In careful speech, you’ll hear the second syllable as a quick, almost whispered /ə/ or a rhotacized nucleus depending on dialect. The key is keeping the /t/ and /d/ clearly separated by a brief, almost breathy vowel in the middle. Pay attention to your mouth: lips remain relaxed, tongue tip lands behind the upper front teeth for /t/ and /d/ with a slight nail-like release, then relax into a central vowel.
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- US: rhotic /ɚ/ ending, with a pronounced r color; keep the tongue slightly curled toward the palate and the lips rounded. - UK: non-rhotic; second syllable becomes /ə/ or /ə/ with reduced vowel; avoid adding an r sound; maintain a front-dosed /t/ release. - AU: often rhotic but varies; similar to US in rhotic realization; focus on a light /d/ and a quick, soft /ə/ or /ə/ in the final syllable. - Vowels: /ɛ/ in the first syllable, not /eɪ/ or /e/. - Consonants: ensure clear alveolar stops /t/ and /d/ with a brief pause between; avoid linking across the boundary. - IPA references: US /ˈtɛn.dɚ/, UK /ˈten.də/, AU /ˈten.də/.
Tender comes from the Old French tendre, via the Latin tender- meaning to stretch, extend, or offer. The French word tailler and tendre are linked to the sense of extending care and attention. In Middle English, tender acquired the meanings of showing gentleness, soft texture, and generosity toward someone in need. The noun sense of a formal offer (as in a bid or contract) developed later through legal and administrative usage, where a “tender” is an invitation to bid or to offer goods or services. The robustness of the term expanded into maritime and legal domains (tender boat, tender offer) in which providing or presenting is central. Across centuries, tender maintained core semantic fields: softness or delicacy (physical or emotional), care and protection, and the act of presenting or offering something tangible or contractual. First known usages appear in Anglo-Norman and Middle French texts, with English adoption intensifying in the 14th–16th centuries as commerce and governance grew more formal. Today, tender traverses everyday adjectives, verbs, and specialized nouns, preserving its multi-meaning backbone across contexts.
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