3 syllables: De, fer, ence. Stress on De.
DEF-ur-uhns
/ˈdɛfɚəns/
Deference is pronounced DEF-ur-uhns (/ˈdɛfɚəns/). It has three syllables (De-fer-ence), with the stress on "De". Deference is a respectful submission or yielding to the opinions, wishes, or judgments of others, typically shown publicly or in formal contexts. It can denote a courteous regard that acknowledges another person’s authority or experience, often expressed through tone, posture, and language. The term is commonly used in legal, social, and professional discourse to describe observed respect rather than agreement.
nounDeference is a respectful submission or yielding to the opinions, wishes, or judgments of others, typically shown publicly or in formal contexts. It can denote a courteous regard that acknowledges another person’s authority or experience, often expressed through tone, posture, and language. The term is commonly used in legal, social, and professional discourse to describe observed respect rather than agreement.
- You may neutralize the /f/ into a softer /v/ sound or blend it with a following /r/ leading to /ˈdefərən(t)s/; ensure a crisp /f/ before the /ə/. - The middle syllable is a quick schwa; don’t over-articulate as /fə/ or /fər/—keep it light and short. - Don’t stall the final /ns/ by turning it into /nsə/; keep the /n/ crisp and the /s/ voiceless. - Avoid pronouncing it like ‘difference’; practice stopping the voice after /f/ and keeping the /r/ soft. - Stress: keep primary stress on the first syllable DEF, not on the second. Practice with slow tempo, then speed up.
How to Pronounce Deference
"The employee showed deference to the manager by listening attentively and deferring to their expertise."
"In many cultures, elders are treated with deference as a sign of politeness and tradition."
"Her deference was evident in the careful wording of her proposal and in seeking consent first."
Deference is pronounced /ˈdɛfərəns/ in US and UK English. The primary stress falls on the first syllable: DEF. The middle syllable is a schwa, and the final syllable ends with an /-əns/. US: /ˈdɛfərəns/, UK: /ˈdɛfəːr(ə)ns/. Start with a crisp D, then /ɛ/ as in “bet,” a light /f/, a relaxed /ə/ in the middle, and finish with /rəns/ or /rəns/ depending on rhythm. You can listen to samples on Pronounce or Forvo for natural variation.
Common errors include pronouncing it as ‘def-rence’ with a strong r-colored middle or mixing it with ‘difference.’ Another frequent mistake is stressing the second syllable instead of the first. Correct by clearly articulating the /d/ + /ɛ/ + /f/ onset, using a short, unstressed /ə/ in the middle, then /r(ə)ns/ at the end. Practice with a minimal pair like ‘defense’ to feel the difference in syllable count and vowel quality.
In US, the initial /d/ is clean, with clear /ɛ/ in the first syllable and a rhotic /r/ before the final /əns/. UK English typically features a slightly more clipped /ˈdɛf(ə)rəns/ with a less pronounced rhoticity in non-rhotic regions; still, the ending /-rəns/ remains. Australian English resembles General UK but with broader vowels; the /ɪ/ is less prominent and the /ə/ in the second syllable may be lighter. All varieties place primary stress on the first syllable.
The challenge lies in the subtle vowel quality in /ɛ/ versus /ə/ and the /f/ followed by a soft /r/ onset in the middle syllable. The transition between the stressed syllable /ˈdɛ/ and the unstressed /fə/ requires precise timing, and many speakers insert an extra vowel or blend to avoid a clean /fər/ sequence. Mastery comes from practicing the exact vowel lengths and maintaining steady tempo across syllables.
Deference sometimes gets confused with ‘reference’ in fast speech. The key difference is the initial consonant cluster: /ˈdɛf(ə)rəns/ starts with a clear /d/ and /ɛ/ before /f/, whereas ‘reference’ begins with /ˈrɛf(ə)rəns/ and includes an easier flow with a leading /r/. Pay attention to the voicing and place of articulation in the onset to keep them distinct in connected speech.
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- US: rhotic; /r/ is pronounced; ensure a clear postvocalic /ɚ/ or /ɝ/ in connected speech if the speaker’s pattern; maintain a clear /f/ followed by a schwa. - UK: non-rhotic tend to drop the rhotic vowel in some contexts; /r/ in /rəns/ is weaker, but ensure the /f/ remains crisp and the suffix /-ən(t)s/ is compact. - AU: general Australian vowels are flattened; keep /ɪ/ toward /ɛ/ quality in /dɛ/ and lightly produce /rəns/ with reduced final vowel. Use IPA as reference and listen to native samples in pronunciation tools.
Deference comes from the Old French deference, from Latin deferentia, from deferre ‘to bring down, to offer, to bestow.’ The word entered English in the late Middle English period, originally linked to bearing or carrying something toward someone (a gesture of respect). Over time, its semantic field broadened beyond physical acts to include social attitude: yielding to another’s authority, showing politeness, and courteous acknowledgment of status. By the 17th century, deference was commonly used to describe formal respect shown to superiors in hierarchical settings. The modern sense emphasizes belief in rightful deference to expertise, rank, or precedent, and it is often contrasted with independence or assertiveness. In contemporary usage, it can carry nuanced implications: genuine consideration of another’s viewpoint or excessive deferential behavior, depending on context. First known use in English appears in the late 1500s, with the sense gradually crystallizing through 17th- and 18th-century writings on manners and governance, continuing into modern professional and legal discourse.
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